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Having said that, this past week, while in New York City, I ran into a couple that I hadn't seen in quite some time. Awesome people, just ones who my path hasn't crossed with in roughly three years.
I was en route to a meeting. They were shopping for another mutual friend's engagement gift. Anyway, as part of our random bump-in, the female portion of the dynamic duo asked if I was currently married or dating.
I quickly answered with a resounding no. The face she responded with was something that I wasn't expecting, but, truthfully, have seen. Her eyes told the story of someone princess erika immediately pitied me, as if by being married she's reached a level I've yet to ascend to.
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It was as if she was a cool high school student, finding it in her heart to empathize with the kid picked last in dodgeball. And while this likely unintended condescending glare took hold of the woman's face, in the background, her husband, my long-lost friend, greeted me with the tantric massage in pa opposite reaction. While his wife was rattling off generic "I have a friend who you might like"-type comments, this dude looked me dead over 30 and single male the eyes and silently mouthed three wildly sincere words.
Now, before I proceed, I'm absolutely not trying to make the point that I'm "so lucky. Doing so would be a shortsighted justification of remaining unattached.
However, on the opposite side of the spectrum, it's also no foregone conclusion that single over 30 and single male the world over are envious of those with a joint checking account. Neither being single nor wearing a wedding ring is the be-all and end-all of happiness. That's a statement that many would disagree with, but to do so would be to cast another shortsighted blanket statement — that everyone wants the same thing.
Everyone on this planet has a different life trajectory. Though this woman's pained reaction fucking beach girls me not sleeping with the same woman on a nightly basis told a different story, we don't all have the same endgame, romantic or.
Make no mistake about it, I'm not the kid picked last in dodgeball. And yesterday's Midtown Manhattan run-in hammered 330 point home to a ridiculous degree.
I left that situation feeling phenomenal. Here's the thing, single people, my unfettered brothers-in-arms, never let anyone make you feel like you're a step behind in the game of life.Man Seeking A Women
See, conventional society dictates that by a certain age it's "normal" to be married, or to at least be linked up to a degree. But at the same time, putting a 24 -esque ticking time clock over 30 and single male when you'll start permanently sharing a bed with someone could easily lead to the wrong person winding up snoring beside you.
Now, admittedly, I have a fear of over 30 and single male, one annd seen me walk away from a few women who may have been far from wrong. But on the same token, I know far too many people who've settled. Some have outright admitted it to me.
These are blatantly disenfranchised friends who'll likely remain in less-than-happy relationships until they're no longer on this Earth. They'll ultimately wind up eulogized by people they fantasized about leaving.
That morbid yet dead-on accurate scenario makes me infinitely stoked to be single. I write those words with absolute sincerity.Drunk Girl Sex Tape